Every kallah deserves to have a beautiful trousseau. We take pride in pampering brides and assisting them in curating their lingerie wardrobe as they embark on their magical journey of marriage.
What should be the most exhilarating time in a kallah’s life can sometimes turn into a nightmare. Be it a broken home, financial difficulties, the reasons are many.
After much thought into how we can make a difference, we came up with this beautiful initiative. We teamed up with Links, an amazing organization that assists orphans in the most discreet and dignified manner. Together, we transform the bridal experience for orphaned brides. One happy kallah at a time.
Every dollar you graciously donate towards this initiative, will help make an unfortunate situation turn into a brighter one.
This project was undertaken L'ilui Nishmas my unforgettable sister in law, Chaya Tziporah bas R' Avrohom, who was taken from us in her prime. May her neshama have an aliyah. Chaya Tzipory, you will always be remembered and remain in our hearts forever.
Seamless, silky, soft to the skin.
Meet BasicBAR. Basic, but not so basic.
If you're tired of wearing thick and stifling shell dresses, this one's for you!
With our ever expanding collections of shell and layering dresses, we've really got it all. But when we saw BasicBAR, we knew this is the cream!
What we love (and we're sure you'll love too) about these shell dresses and slips is the ultimate comfort and breathability. Its super thin fabric ensures a seamless look. And it's made in the USA!
Whether you're looking to layer or use this as the base of a dress, these versatile options and colors will work flawlessly.
BasicBAR is available in sleeveless, long sleeve, and slip skirt versions.
The sleeveless style is available in two lengths, classic and tall. The classic version measures 38" from shoulder to hem and the tall version measures 40" from shoulder to hem.
It's available in 3 colors: Black, Nude, White
The long sleeves style is also available in two lengths, classic and tall. The classic version measures 38" from shoulder to hem and the tall version measures 40" from shoulder to hem.
It's available in 3 colors: Black, Nude, White
The slip skirt is the queen of all half slips. It's available in 2 lengths, Petite which measures 23" and Classic which measures 25".
They are available in Black and Nude.
Useful Size Guide for BasicBAR:
Sunny spring weather is here and that means one thing, summer is around the bend!
We’ve been working all winter long to bring you the most amazing items for camp and vacation and finally, the products are bracing our racks!
Flamingo swimwear is a young brand that is evolving so rapidly due to its high quality fabrics and strong focus on fit. If you know me, I’m a sucker for well fitted products. Because anything less than perfection doesn’t make it into our shoppes.Let’s discover their exciting brand new line of teen swimwear.The BSS Collection
The BSS collection this year, features these colors:
For the slim and tall teenFeatures:
Color trim
Removable cups
High neck
High back
Sized 30-40, this swimsuit model is the perfect option for the slim and tall teen.
Easy to fit - just go by the bra band size. If your teen measures 32B, then a size 32 will fit.
The BSV Collection
For the short and thin teen and for the short fuller teenFeatures:Vertical stripesRemovable cupsHigh neckHigh backSized 30-40, this swimsuit model is the perfect option for the shorter teen.Easy to fit - just go by the bra band size. If your teen measures 32B, then a size 32 will fit.2Z’s 2 Piece Tank and Shorts Swim SetAvailable in 2 versions, this practical set is a favorite among pre-teens and now teens!2ZBM Black/Multi 2 Piece Tank & Shorts Set
Ideal for the budding pre-teen, this set does not have any built in cups.
Sized 14-20 which conveniently corresponds to children’s clothing sizes.2ZBW Black/White 2 Piece Tank & Shorts Set
The 2.0 version of the 2ZBM, this updated version is geared for the teenager. It features removable cups and is sized XXS-XL. Another great asset is the hoops on the bottom of the tank that attaches to the shorts to keep the tank in place when swimming.
Swim Shorts
Teens love these shorts and we’re not surprised! Has a tight fit on the waist and thighs, just what they need for a comfortable swim workout.Sizes XS-2X
Swim Skort
Want a tight fitted short with a bit more modest coverage? The Flamingo swim skort adds a perfect flair.
"In order to trust your body as a guide, the first step is to begin to understand it."
As women, the biggest power we have is to learn and become in tune with our bodies. The first step is education. Our Mylie tutorial videos in each of our fitting rooms in both locations aim to do just that: tell you secret tips that nobody's ever told you.
One area that I find needs more awareness is fluctuating bra cup sizes. Realize that your body is constantly changing. YES! even within the same month. Once you have that knowledge, you can:
A) Be in tune with your body so you can watch for changes
B) know when to schedule a bra fitting
Factors that can affect or contribute to fluctuating cup size:
1) The most common one is the menstrual cycle. Women can be up to a full cup size larger during their period.
2) Birth Control. Birth control has a direct effect on breasts and so it also affects the cup size as well. Just have that knowledge when shopping for bras as when you start and stop taking birth control, your bra size will most definitely change.
3) Weight Gain / Weight Loss. When you gain or lose weight, one of the areas less commonly known to get impacted is your breast size. Even 5 lbs up or down matters. Also, once a bra is stretched due to weight gain it'll stay stretched out even if weight is lost, thereby losing its support.
4)Fertility Treatments. Any time hormones are introduced into our bodies, it affects us one way or another. For lots of women, cup size increases.
5) Pregnancy. Hormonal factors in early pregnancy cause most women to grow in cup size. The bra size typically regulates at around 18-20 weeks so that would be the ideal time to get fitted. Then, as the rib cage expands to make room for the growing uterus (usually in the 7th month and on), you'll feel the bra band getting tight. At that point, an extender can be added to the bra for more wiggle room or comfy nursing bras can be purchased to get you through the pregnancy and early breastfeeding stage.
6) Breastfeeding. After birth, breasts become enlarged to accommodate the milk supply for the newborn. There is no way to predict how much one will grow. From experience, every birth looks different for the same mom. It is important to know this as it's not recommended to over-purchase bras before birth. We recommend getting 2-3 comfy wire free nursing bras to get started.
Additionally, cup sizes fluctuate while nursing as well.
For most women, 12 weeks postpartum is an ideal time to come get fitted as the milk supply is usually regulated by then.
Make sure that you're not due for a feeding or pumping session when coming to get fitted.
An important disclaimer on this topic: No two bodies are alike. Every woman will respond differently to any of the above factors. The purpose of this blog post is to educate so you have the knowledge to learn your body and plan bra fittings accordingly.
Nipple Shields When the t-shirts come out, nipple shields come out too!Purpose: to avoid nipples from showing through t-shirts. There are lots of different types of nipple shields. Our most popular one is the Edith's Bezi bra discs. A silicone disc that is reusable and washable. It lasts for a long while if handled with care!Some other great reusable options:
We also sell disposable nipple shields:
Half SlipsAvoid those clingy skirts.Half slips are a great solution for unlined skirts and dresses. It acts as a protective barrier to keep the clothing from clinging to the body.Most of our half slips are made out of similar fabrics, all performing the same function. Half slips are available in black, white, and beige colors.
Heirloom Taffeta Half Slips are available in Black & Nude 23", 25", 27" 29" & 31"
Shell Slips Eliminate all those layers.A shell slip is an awesome invention that has a shell top and slip skirt attached as one dress.
It's available in sleeveless, 3/4 sleeves, and long sleeve options as well as different lengths. We also carry seamless shell dresses for those sheer skirts and dresses that can't handle seams or lace trims.
Shell Dresses
A shell dress is a seamless dress ideal to act as a lining for any sheer dress.
Gemsli: A bonded fabric available in black and white and in 37", 39", 41" & 57".
Memoi: A bonded long sleeve shell dress available in black, nude, and white and in 38" & 42".
Sparrow: A shell dress made entirely out of a shell fabric. Since the fabric has body, it's great for layering! Available in black, ivory, and white and in 40", 43", 44" & 57".
Skimmies or Shorties
However you refer to them, these are summer lifesavers. If you suffer from heat rashes or chafing skin, these shorts will surely save the day.
Sweat ShieldsPreserve your t-shirts & dresses.Sweat shields are lifesavers and prolong the lifespan of clothing. For the washable shields, it's important to note the difference between vinyl and fabrapel options.
Vinyl shields contain a "plastic" lining in the shield which acts as a barrier to prevent the sweat from leaking right through. This is a great solution for someone that sweats profusely.
Fabrapel shields don't contain the plastic lining in the shield. This option works well for moderate to medium sweaters as it won't cause you to sweat even more and it has just enough protectionSew in shields Perfect for gowns or dresses that you want to preserve. This gets sewn directly into the garment. One size.
Snap on shields A newer invention to the market, snap on shields get snapped on to the bra straps. It's the perfect solution for a seamless shield as there are no additional strings showing through. One size.
Stay rite shieldsThe old fashioned forever old shields that are worn as a vest around the chest area. Sized as XS, S, M, LG, XL and 2X.
Disposable Shields:
Ideal for that elegant evening dress or white shirt you plan on wearing but don't want to ruin. Also great for gowns and for travel.
Great for men & woman:
A contoured shield suitable for women:
A value pack so you get more bang for your buck! Great for men and women:
Sweat WipesWipe once and reap the benefits for 7 days!Sweat wipes are a blessing to humanity. It contains the same ingredients as regular deodorant, just more concentrated.
Bra LinersSweaty underwires are not fun, especially when it causes heat rashes.
Cup care liners to the rescue. Available in 2 sizes, it's a disposable shield that gets stuck into the inner side of the bra to act as a barrier and absorb sweat.
Clothing Tape
Hem hanging? buttons on the shirt popping? Tape tothe rescue!This is the product every woman needs in her handbag! The sky's the limit of what this product can be used for. It literally works in any situation you need a quick fix.
A double sided roll of tape you want to keep in your handbag for any emergency!
When That Time of Month Comes Around, Toss Your Worries and
Embrace the Day with Confidence!
With our leak free period panties there are no more surprises.
Peridot: Protection for Everyone. Everywhere.
Peridot is a leak proof panty that features a micro-thin layer for extra protection. While these panties need to be used in conjunction with sanitary products, it's a great option for teens, women with low bladder control and any time extra protection is needed.
Peridots are available in briefs, hipsters, and bikinis in 3 beautiful colors.
Dorina Eco Moon Period Panties: One Layer and Done.
Dorina eco moon period panties are the go to panties for peace of mind. It's fully absorbent with protection for up to 12 hours so no additional sanitary products need to be used along with it.
Dorina D000159 Eco Moon Highly Absorbent Cotton Brief 2 Pk
Features a high waistband plus full rear coverage for total comfort.
Also provides an excellent postpartum panty option.
Comes in a pack of two.
Machine washable 30 C, rinse in cold water, no fabric softener, hang to dry
Available in navy or black.
Dorina D000157 Eco Moon Highly Absorbent Modal Hipster 2 PK
The DORINA Eco Moon 2-Pack Hipster Classic Period Panty has a flattering hipster rise and helps you stay confident and in control during your period, thanks to moisture-wicking fabric with up to 12 hours of absorbency to keep you dry.
PRODUCT DETAILS:
The odor-fighting moisture-wicking inner fabric layer can absorb up to 50ml, while a water-resistant outer layer is designed to prevent unsightly leaks.
Features full rear coverage for total comfort.
Also provides an excellent postpartum panty option.
Comes in a pack of two.
Available in navy.
Sizing tip: We recommend sizing up one size on all period panties for optimal fit.
LUXURIOUS LINGERIE, DESIGNED FOR YOUItalian for "beautiful thing", Cosabella was founded by husband and wife duo Valeria and Ugo Campello. Proud to still be made in Italy with the same passion and creativity as when established in 1983.PERFECTING ITALIAN LINGERIE FOR 35 YEARSThe Cosabella philosophy is rooted in exceptional quality, classic Italian craftsmanship and unexpected details.Since establishment, Cosabella values its intrinsic relationships with Italian artisans. Its prized family-run workshops remain tucked away in villas dotted throughout Italy.INSPIRED BY THE MODERN WOMANAlways blending traditional Italian artisanship with fashion-forward innovations, Cosabella aspires to create feminine, timeless designs that evoke confidence and individuality for every woman.
When I found the Cosabella brand, I immediately knew this was an instant winner. Why, you ask? It's one of the only companies that I came across that caters to EVERY. SINGLE. BEAUTIFUL. Woman. And I mean it.Not only do they produce lingerie in petite, regular, and curvy sizes, it actually supports! They win the medal for ensuring that their products are quality garments and completely functional at the same time.Petites:Only a handful of brands cater to the petite woman. Having a petite frame should not make it harder to shop for lingerie. All women deserve to look and feel pretty, no matter the size. Here's a Cosabella Petites size guide:Designed for those with smaller frames (5’3 and under), featuring shorter straps, shallower and smaller cups, and smaller bust bands. Always inspired by Italy and designed for you.Sizes range A - D cup and start at size 28 bands.Here are some petite styles we carry from Cosabella:Paradiso Petite Bralette Set
Regulars:There's nothing regular when it comes to Cosabella. Just a perfectly fitting garment!Here's a Cosabella Regular size guide:Our original classic fit in standard sizing in both lingerie and sleepwear. Take it from the experts. We've been perfecting the fit for over 35 years.Sizes range A – D cup and start at size 28 bands.Some of our favorites:Never Say Never Bralette Set
Lots of other color options available on our site.Pret a Porter Bralette SetAllure Bralette SetAllure Babydoll Chemise
Curvy, or I'm Regular but Larger Chested:This is where buying lingerie can be sooo tricky. Try to find a bralette that is pretty but will also really lift and support. Hello Cosabella Curvy! Here's a Cosabella size guide for curvy:
Our Curvy collection is expertly designed to fit those with slim frames and a full bust. Curvy styles will keep you supported and comfortable in our exceptional Italian designs.
Sizes range DD – F+ cup and start at size 28 bands.
Never Say Never Curvy Bralette SetSavona Curvy Bralette SetAllure Curvy Modal ChemiseI want to give an honorable mention to Cosabella's softest and yummiest pajamas sets you can own. Of course, it comes in petite and regular sizing. Because who likes their jammies hanging?The Bella Pajamas in Petite Sizing:The Bella Pajamas in Regular Sizing:
Here's to dressing women as an individual woman! Pretty, Poised, and Perfect.
Every month has an average of 30 days, except for the last month of pregnancy which has about 1,330 days.
Sounds familiar? We feel you. Pregnancy is a blessing although it comes with its set of discomforts. As a mom, I gravitate to the products that make life's moments more comfortable. And pregnancy is no exception.
This comprehensive product guide will hopefully lessen those aches and pains!
Firstly, let's talk bras. After all, we are the bra experts :)
As your body embraces pregnancy, hormones will affect your breast size. Most women experience a growth in cup size (and later on in pregnancy, band size) until the end of the 4th, early 5th month. At that point, the size stabilizes. As your rib cage begins to expand to make room for your growing belly, the band will get tight. Sometimes, all you need is a bra extender to give you more wiggle room. You might feel the need to get fitted for comfortable, soft, wire free bras in your 7th or 8th month if the extender solution isn't working and discomfort is becoming your daily companion.
We recommend getting fitted for comfy wire free nursing bras towards the end of the 8th/early 9th month.
Maternity Panties
Comfy panties are key in pregnancy. We have a nice selection of maternity briefs.
If you prefer to have a lower cut panty that will hit right under your belly, consider a bikini.
Belly Bandit SOS Charcoal S.O.S. Sleep on Side Sleep Pillow
The SOS pregnancy pillow that literally "grows" along with you. Say hello to sleeping comfortably again.
Add Some comfy loose fitting pj's and sleep shirts to your lingerie drawer. Your sleep will just not be same :)
Loose fitting pajamas:
Loose fitting nightshirts:
There are lots of "baby belts" out there for extra pelvic support. We've tested lots and these are hands down our 2 best sellers:
The Upsie Pregnancy Support Band
Features a hot/cold gel pack that fits neatly in the back pocket for instant relief.
The Anita Baby Belt
Effective prevention of back pain, especially in the final weeks of pregnancy. Thanks to integrated flexible stretch zones sitting down is not a problem since the belt adapt to your movements.
Bellybandit V-SLING Black Pelvic Support Band
The doctor-recommended V-Sling is specifically designed to address severe pelvic pain associated with pregnancy. This flexible, neoprene sling is easy-to-use and highly adjustable to provide maximum support of the uterine wall and relieve pelvic and vaginal pressure. Say goodbye to pregnancy waddle, pain and discomfort with this innovative support that can be worn day or night.
The V- Sling is designed to support your belly and uterine wall, which may help with:
Symphysis Pubis/Pelvic Girdle Pain
Pelvic floor support, pressure and heaviness
Weight distribution and mobility
Uterine prolapse
Inguinal and femoral hernia
Vaginal or vulvar varicosities
Check out our selection of maternity shapers for those special occasions when you want that little extra pull!
Don't forget about our grand selection of maternity shell dresses.
Get extra protection with these thin panty liners.
At MySelf Lingerie, we are all about celebrating women. In every stage. On every journey.
As a woman preps for the most auspicious and beautiful time of childbirth, it's of utmost importance to have the essentials so recovery can be as comfy and smooth as possible.
Let's dive right into our favorite essentials, shall we?
Nursing Bras
We highly recommend coming in to get fitted for easy and supportive nursing bras at the end of 8th / beginning of 9th month. Our focus is always to fit you into a super soft wire free nursing bra that will carry you through the first couple of weeks postpartum. We don't recommend wearing an underwire until at least 12 weeks postpartum to avoid breast infections and unnecessary discomfort.
Our favorite choice for an all day wire free nursing bra is one that's sized by Small, Medium, Large.. as opposed to cup sizes since those are stretchy enough to accommodate growing breasts. It is almost impossible to guess accurately what your cup size will be once the breast milk comes in. So the safest and most comfortable option is an easy to size and easy to wear bra :)
For night-time nursing, these are our faves:
While we're on the topic of bras, these silicone LilyPadz nursing pads are a customer favorite for night time nursing / preventing milk leakage.
Oh! One more must-have item if you're planning on pumping. The click n pump nursing bra add on is a lifesaver. Pump hands free!
Let's continue compiling the hospital bag with more amazing must-haves.
Comfy mom is key. Stock up on soft and easy nursing nightgowns or hospital gowns as many like to call it. If you're a pajama lover, go for it!
A
morning robe or wrap
is a lifesaver when unexpected guests make their appearance or if you're in the mood for a stroll but don't feel like getting dressed. Slip into one of our luxurious wraps and you're set.
Now, for the little stuff that make a big difference. Let me tell you that!
Leak proof panties are just what the doctor ordered. Available in bikinis, hipsters, or briefs, these will catch those unwanted drips.
Don't give birth without these VCOOL perineal gel packs. Flexible stay-cool packs slip into your undies and provide relief for postpartum swelling, itching and burning.
Always a great idea to pack a mini perfume or body lotion so you can feel human when you need it most!
3 more items that are worthy of mentioning here so you know those items exist just in case you need it. (I wish someone told me that it existed when I gave birth, so I'm sharing it with you :)
Silverette Nursing Cups are the secret remedy for bleeding or cracked nipples. Made out of 925 sterling silver, it uses the natural healing power of the silver mineral and works its magic. This has helped so many women continue breastfeeding when they were almost ready to give up.
Belly Bandit Postpartum wraps will help your body get back into shape quicker if worn within 6 weeks after birth when your body is contracting naturally and trying to heal. We recommend wearing these even after the 6 weeks mark as it assists in training your body to shape up!
Magical Wool. This natural product is a lifesaver for soothing and healing cracked nipples (and yes, also diaper rashes and lots of other skin issues). Definitely a great product to keep handy.
Lastly, if you're having or had a c-section, these briefs are a must. Features targeted compression to reduce swelling with silver-infused fibers to help eliminate bacteria and odor.
Words from an experienced mom: listen to your body. Take the time to heal and adjust to this wonderful new journey of motherhood. Enjoy all these fabulous products that are here to make this a remarkable time.
Swim dresses do come in many shapes and sizes, just like humans :)
Shopping for the perfect swim dress or swim set can be overwhelming, given all the amazing brands and styles out there.
We simplified the process for you by creating a "choose your body type" guide. Simple as that.
Of course humans are more complex than shapes, but these are basic categories that most women can easily identify with.
Let's break down each of these types here and then you'll find links underneath each one with items suited best for that specific body type.
When shoulders or chest size are larger than the waist and bottom, you want to look for a dress that's either a dolman style or has more of a flowy fit on the top part of the dress to accommodate.
The Undercover Waterwear SWING swim dress is an easy one-size-fits-all dress. It's an extremely flowy dress and fits any body shape easily.
The Jackie O swim dress has a very forgiving fit with lots of extra fabric in all areas. Available in Black Denim, Blue Denim, Black, Blue, Leopard, Geometric:
When a body shape is more or less even all around, focus on a regular or a-line cut for ideal fit.
The Undercover Waterwear print sleeve swim dress is a regular cut dress that will flatter your figure.
The Jackie O junior 2 piece swim sets are fun, functional and affordable. It has a v neck cut at the neck but is still modest. If you're a woman purchasing this set, simply size up on size as it's cut to accommodate a junior.
The Jackie O swim cover up dresses are lightweight, flowy, and cute. It runs roomy so size down accordingly.
The Flamingo swim dresses are lightweight, have ample fabric, and is so comfy. You'll find yourself wanting to cook in these dresses!
This is a fairly popular body type, especially if you're a mom that's birthed children :) Fear not, there are plenty of swim options for you.
The Jackie O swim cover up dresses are lightweight, flowy, and cute. It runs really roomy to accommodate.
The Undercover Waterwear Swing swim dress is an easy one-size-fits-all dress. It's an extremely flowy dress and fits any body shape easily. Available in a chain print and in black in a custom 2" longer length.
The Jackie O swim dress has a very forgiving fit with lots of extra fabric in all areas.
Available in Black Denim, Blue Denim, Black, Blue, Leopard, Geometric:
The Flamingo swim dresses are a great choice with its forgiving fit and awesomely comfy fabric. Available in 3 colors and 3 lengths so you're sure to find the one that suits YOU.
Being pregnant brings it own set of challenges and body changes. Finding the right swim dress should not be one of them.
The Jackie O swim cover up dresses are lightweight, flowy, and cute. It runs really roomy to accommodate.
The Undercover Waterwear Swing Swim Dress is an easy one-size-fits-all dress. It's an extremely flowy dress and fits any body shape easily.
The Jackie O swim dress has a very forgiving fit with lots of extra fabric in all areas.
Available in Black Denim, Blue Denim, Black, Blue, Leopard, Geometric:
The Flamingo swim dresses are forgiving, super comfortable and available in 3 lengths!
Flamingo Maternity Swimsuit
Finally, a maternity swimsuit that is supportive, fits well and doesn't break the bank!
Flamingo Maternity Rashguards
Lounging at the pool? Watching the kiddies in the water? Going for a swim?
This new addition to our swim collection is an instant hit. Made out of a superfine mesh lightweight fabric, you can have your coverage and be comfortable too.
Pair it with the Flamingo maternity shorts for a complete look.
As always, we are constantly upgrading and updating our inventory and styles with every woman's shape and need in mind.